I’ll be honest, I’m one of those people who likes to have their life all put together–or at least make it feel that way. I love the sense of control I have when everything is organized, my bed is made, my planner is updated, my schedule is full (but not too full,) and I am accessorized stylishly. You know, the typical “Type B+” college girl way of living. I’m not Type A, but there are times I wish that I were.
The reality is that my dorm room looks like a laundry train ran through it and Office Depot threw up on my desk. The suite-style bathroom has hair in the shower drain and I found a bug in the sink last week. Two of my bags from Christmas Break are still not unpacked. In summary, even just sitting in my room makes my head spin because it is nowhere close to the way I would like it to be. And that is why I’m in the dorm lobby, in my PJs, typing at you instead of doing my homework.
Aside from the less than ideal current condition of my dorm room, there are many other uncertainties in my life right now as well. In fact, the cold weather takes such a toll on my body that there are days where I am uncertain if I will even be able to make it out of bed. At this rate, my physical training goals are seeming farther and farther away as Jack Frost constricts every muscle fiber, rattles my joints, and triples my pain levels. There are smaller uncertainties too, like whether my textbooks will ever get here or waiting on the washers to be fixed so that I can curb that laundry train. Choo-choo! There isn’t much left for me to be certain about. As fulfilling as it may be to have life put together all nice and neat, I know it will be even more fulfilling when God reaches out his hand to bring His great provision to my mess.
I can tell that He is preparing my heart for my time in Cambodia, among other things. When it comes to mission work, I have always considered myself to be fairly flexible. But God is showing me just how flexible I must become, and how much I really must rely on Him. I love that this internship is going to be one great, unpredictable adventure. And it will definitely be an adventure over which I have little control, and that’s fine with me.
God’s getting me used to not having it all together. And it’s not that I had it all together before, but He is teaching me to be at peace with the unmade bed, bugs in the sink, less than pristine planner, and imperfect outfits. Cambodia will be great, but He wants to provide in the nooks and crannies of my life, in each minute of the days leading up to my departure.
It is difficult, and at times over the past week He has pulled me through kicking and screaming. My joints hurt, I am tired, and my life simply doesn’t make much sense. But the one thing I can be certain of is that I serve a God who is preparing me for things beyond what I can ask or imagine, and He calls me to a life to the full regardless of what that may look like on the outside.